Sunday, October 4, 2015

Teaching Children to Be Fair People

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My mother raised her children with a strong sense of fairness and just.  As adults, my siblings and I have remarked that things don't sit right with us if an unbalance, or an injustice is felt.  Many people can relate, and yet others have a different perspective on fairness.  A close friend of mine, is at peace with life being unbalanced at times.  The need to keep things fair isn't what drives this friend of mine.  And then...there is my kid's perspective on fairness.  This child of mine has a strong desire to make things fair as much as humanly possible pretty much all of the time!  As a mother, this can be a challenging task, because life simply isn't fair all the time.   Learning to accept that not everything in life is fair, is a lesson in itself!

http://bitsofpositivity.com/2014/07/16/fairness-word-art-freebie/When thinking about fairness, such terms as equality, justice, balance, and equitableness come to mind.  Perhaps a key to being at peace with fairness as a child, is to distinguish between keeping things fair, and keeping them equal.  We all know there is a difference between the two, and once we accept that difference, understanding fairness comes more naturally.

I believe children and students benefit from establishing a proper sense of fairness.  In order to do this, there needs to be an understanding that things do not need to be equal, in order to be fair.  Fairness speaks to meeting the needs of others in a way that suits their needs, and is neither biased in a good or bad way.  Making the distinction between things that are equal, and things that are fair is important.   Providing examples of this distinction may be helpful when teaching this concept.  For example, it would not be fair for a second grade student to be expected to complete the same type and amount of homework as a fifth grade student.  Both children are elementary aged students, but they have different academic needs.  Therefore, providing an equal amount and type of homework to both students, would result in an unfairness.   To further the understanding of fairness, here are a few suggestions...

  • Role play situations regarding fairness and equality with children.  
  • Research or interview people with occupations that involve fairness.  Examples include: judge, counselor, police officer, coach, teacher, etc.
  • Observe fair and unfair behavior in books and movies.  Discuss possible solutions to unfair behaviors.
  • Play card, board, or physical activity games involving fairness.  Model good choices, sportsmanship, and how to handle unfair situations.
  • Discuss class or house rules.  Are the rules the same for everyone?  Why or why not?  Should they be the same?  How does the concept of fairness relate to rules?
  • Model fairness.

In addition to the above suggestions, I created a fun and educational Fairness Packet that may be used by teachers, parents, school counselors, social workers, special education teachers, speech therapists, and other specialists.  Included in this packet are activities, printables, posters, awards and more.

https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Product/Fairness-2122649

What ways do you keep things fair in your classroom, home, or place of work?

4 comments:

  1. Love this! Even in secondary fairness is such an important concept. Thanks for sharing.

    Cheers,
    DocRunning

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    1. Thanks DocRunning. I agree! Even though this packet is geared toward elementary aged children, secondary and beyond can benefit from an acceptance and understanding of this concept. Even adults, struggle with injustices all the time. Hopefully we (adults) learn over time how to properly handle unfairness, and when to rightfully call something unfair.

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  2. Great explanation of fairness...a concept so many children struggle with! Resources are very thorough too!

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    1. Thank you! Fairness can be a tough concept for many people, and especially children to grasp. I hope my resources help children to understand and be at peace with the concept of fairness.

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