My mother raised her children with a strong sense of fairness and just. As adults, my siblings and I have remarked that things don't sit right with us if an unbalance, or an injustice is felt. Many people can relate, and yet others have
When thinking about fairness, such terms as equality, justice, balance, and equitableness come to mind. Perhaps a key to being at peace with fairness as a child, is to distinguish between keeping things fair, and keeping them equal. We all know there is a difference between the two, and once we accept that difference, understanding fairness comes more naturally.
I believe children benefit from establishing a proper sense of fairness. In order to do this, there needs to be an understanding that things do not need to be equal, in order to be fair. Fairness speaks to meeting the needs of others in a way that suits their needs, and is neither biased in a good or bad way. Making the distinction between things that are equal, and things that are fair is important. Providing examples of this distinction may be helpful when teaching this concept. For example, it would not be fair for a second grade student to be expected to complete the same type and amount of homework as a fifth grade student. Both children are elementary aged students, but they have different academic needs. Therefore, providing an equal amount and type of homework to both students, would result in an unfairness. To further the understanding of fairness, here are a few suggestions...
- Role play situations regarding fairness and equality with children.
- Provide opportunities that question fair verses equal circumstances. For example, reward two children for a job well done. Give one child (who loves sweet treats) a piece of candy. Give the other child (who prefers to play) a small toy. Explain that each child is getting their needs met by being rewarded by what best motivates them. Things do not have to be the the same in order to be fair.
- Research or interview people with occupations that involve fairness. Examples include: judge, counselor, police officer, coach, teacher, etc.
- Observe fair and unfair behavior in books and movies. Discuss possible solutions to unfair behaviors.
- Play card, board, or physical activity games involving fairness. Model good choices, sportsmanship, and how to handle unfair situations.
- Discuss class or house rules. Are the rules the same for everyone? Why or why not? Should they be the same? How does the concept of fairness relate to rules?
- Model fairness.
What ways do you keep things fair in your classroom, home, or place of work?
Love this! Even in secondary fairness is such an important concept. Thanks for sharing.ReplyDelete
Thanks DocRunning. I agree! Even though this packet is geared toward elementary aged children, secondary and beyond can benefit from an acceptance and understanding of this concept. Even adults, struggle with injustices all the time. Hopefully we (adults) learn over time how to properly handle unfairness, and when to rightfully call something unfair.Delete
Great explanation of fairness...a concept so many children struggle with! Resources are very thorough too!ReplyDelete
Thank you! Fairness can be a tough concept for many people, and especially children to grasp. I hope my resources help children to understand and be at peace with the concept of fairness.Delete
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